The Pros and Cons of Marrying Later in Life

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The heart wants what it wants, and our hearts don’t lose their capacity to love as they age. However, if you find love later in life, it’s important to consider all of the financial benefits and downsides of tying the knot. When there are children and grandchildren, multiple properties and ex-spouses involved, things can rapidly get complicated.

The Benefits of Marrying Later in Life

  • Combining Incomes Can Improve a Financial Situation: If both partners have assets and property already, their combined financial situation can often be much healthier than if they did not marry. Whether one home can be sold or rented, two incomes and two sets of previously-independent financial resources are a great challenge to have.
  • Maturity Enables Better Problem-Solving: With age comes wisdom, and with experience comes a better understanding of how to work together to accomplish goals together. Older couples tend to have much more experience, understand the challenges that health issues can pose and have a handle on patience and compassion.
  • Tax Benefits: Marriage comes with hefty financial and tax benefits, and married spouses can receive an unlimited amount of assets without needing to pay estate taxes. Tax laws also benefit married couples with IRAs.
  • Longer Lifespan: One study of over 500,000 people found that staying single as an older adult can take up to 10 years off of your lifespan.

The Downsides of Marrying Later in Life

  • Lack of Financial Agreement: Some older adults are concerned about children, relatives and spouses finding out about their assets and wealth and making health decisions accordingly. In these cases, a prenuptial agreement and careful estate planning can offset concerns.
  • High Medical Costs: When you marry, you will become responsible for your spouse’s debts, regardless of where they came from. You will also assume responsibility for your spouse’s children or stepchildren in the eyes of insurance companies, who might increase your premiums in response.
  • Caring for Children: Depending on past relationships and children, through marriage one spouse might become responsible for the other spouse’s children financially. If the other spouse has younger children, the couple might pay for private school, uniforms, hobbies and more.

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Deborah Bakalich, Certified Senior Advisor®
Deborah Bakalich, Certified Senior Advisor®
Owner, Certified Senior Advisor (CSA®) & Assisted Living Placement Specialist - Senior Care Lifestyles, LLC provides compassion, guidance and recommendations to families faced with transitioning a loved one into Assisted Living, Dementia/Alzheimer’s Care, Skilled Nursing, Temporary Respite Care or a Continuous Care Retirement Community. Senior Care Lifestyles was founded in 2014 by Deborah Bakalich, a Certified Senior Advisor and graduate from both Towson University and Stevenson. Senior Care Lifestyles is uniquely positioned as a local (not National) Maryland based placement firm familiar with Maryland senior care facilities and in-state financial assistance programs for senior residents. They meet personally with each family to understand the seniors care needs including medical, personal lifestyle preferences, budget, religion and desired geographic location. They pride themselves in locally guiding and educating families through the entire maze of senior living options available and will schedule tours on behalf of the family and accompany the family on visits of communities. They are passionate and committed to finding the perfect match to call home and stays with the family throughout the entire process, every step of the way, until a decision is made, and the senior is safely moved into their new home. Senior Care Lifestyles can also provide the family with trustworthy, vetted, and reputable experts to assist with the transition for organizing, packing, moving, sale of real estate, estate planning, legal services, and determining eligibility for State, Federal and Veterans Benefits to assist with care costs. Deborah is a proud member of the Maryland Senior Resource Network (MSRN) where she has served as Vice President on the Board of Directors. She is a member of the Alzheimer’s Organization, Society of Certified Senior Advisors, Mid-Atlantic Network Group and a member of the Business Opportunity Network (BON).

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